I got a project I'm working on now, I can't get the ice to melt at all been 6 months. I prefer a direct answer. Hey, but that's just me. It's not rare. I have literally had men spit on me for saying no.
I'll help with the logistics of caring for the kids etc. But I'm not doing favours like a couple would, fix her car etc She told me she was surprised that I didn't seem to hate her anymore and even more surprised when my response was that I was done with the anger and I gave up hating her as a favour to myself.
I just don't know anymore.